One of the highlights of the Seder is the mention of the four sons. Based on different verses in the Torah, these characters represent different things to each generation. This of course especially true of the wicked son. In the illustrations of each Hagadah we can see how different generations have found there own version of this type. The passage of the wicked son is in itself a bit puzzling. By saying ’what is this service to you’ and not to us, he is regarded as removing himself from the Jewish people. You therefore ’set his teeth on edge’ by implying that had been in the generation of the Exodus, he would not have been thought worthy to be redeemed, a reference to those Jews whom tradition says died in the plague of darkness. Yet is this not precisely what the lad is saying. He is basically not interested in Judaism. This is your affair, not mine. I want no part in these obscure, outdated rituals. How then does implying he would not have been part of the redemption annoy him so much? The answer teaches us much about Jewish psychology. It is true that the wicked son is openly contemptuous of Jewish ritual. He wants nothing to do with the Jewish religion, politics or even culture. He is a modern assimilated citizen of the world. But so much as hint that he is not really Jewish or not a part of the Jewish people and his hackles rise. No one has the right to tell him that he is not Jewish enough. He is born Jewish and will die Jewish irrespective of what the Rabbis might say or what he does in between. The answer to the wicked son, rather than being self-defeating, thus hits him where it hurts or, in fact, does the most good. It forces him to confront the fact that, despite trying to run as fast and far away as possible from everything connected to Judaism or Jews, deep down he does care about being Jewish. Being in some way tied to the Jewish destiny is, even subconsciously, basic to his identity and the suggestion that he may be cut off from that destiny, cuts to the bone. The answer given to the wicked son thus causes him to question his own beliefs, and if he really is so estranged from Judaism as he pretends. If it suddenly means so much to be counted as a Jew, what implications does that have for his life? This scenario is, of course, as familiar to us as in previous generations. The Hagadah thus shows us not to despair of any Jew, no matter how seemingly estranged from Judaism or the Jewish people. Scratch a little deeper and the Jew in him will come out. That is indeed a good thing to remember as we celebrate our national birthday.
TORAH PREVIEW
FIRST DAY: 105-108 HAFTORAH: 108-110
The Torah Reading is from Exodus and deals with the first Pesach. The Haftorah is from Joshua and relates the Passover kept when the Israelites entered the Land.
SECOND DAY: 110-114 HAFTORAH: 115-116
The Torah Reading is from Leviticus and deals with the Festival Cycle and the Omer offered today. The Haftorah is from Kings and relates Josiah’s observance of Pesach.
SHABBAT: 116-119 HAFTORAH: 115-116
The Torah Reading is from Exodus and deals with the giving of the Second Tablets. The Haftorah is from Ezekiel and is the vision of the Dry Bones.
PESACH POINTERS
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On Seder night we must perform two mitzvot from the Torah and two from the Rabbis.
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From the Torah, we must eat at least half a machine-baked matzah and relate the story of the Exodus.
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The Rabbis told us to drink four cups of wine and eat Maror, which is eaten from the Torah only with the Pesach sacrifice.
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The afikoman, eaten in place of the Pesach sacrifice, should be eaten by midnight.
KNOW YOUR OMER !
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The Omer is counted from the 2nd night of Pesach for 49 nights.
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The Omer should only be counted after nightfall.
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If you miss one night you continue the next night without a B’racha.
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The Omer should be counted standing.
It is forbidden to eat of the new crop of grain until nightfall after the 17th of Nisan. (16th in Israel)
KNOW YOUR SONG !
Who wrote the Song of Songs?
Why is it said on Pesach?
When else is it said on Pesach?
What is the name of the female lover?
Why want the woman open the door to her lover?
Where are there royal vineyards?
Who in Jewish tradition are the two lovers?
What is stronger than death?
What is the female compared to?
When do Sefardim say the song?
