Visiting the Synagogue with Small Children
The purpose of writing this is to provide a few practical suggestions for attending a service with a small person in the Edinburgh Synagogue. My husband and I are now regular attendees with our two year old and we have been amazed at how easy it has become to be in Shul with her.
Noise / Behaviour
The Edinburgh Hebrew Congregation has a high proportion of grandparents who are prepared to tolerate behaviour we parents would condemn in a flash, so relax! However, the times to step outside if noisy are during the memorial prayer, during the sermon and during kaddish.
Nappies (aka diapers)
In the Ladies' Toilets there is a large flat surface next to the sink that is ideal for changing nappies on. There are usually some nappies, wipes and a mat stashed in the drawers if you get caught short. The down side is that Daddies can't go in there.
Food and Drink
The Shul is strictly kosher so prepared food you have brought with you needs to be fed to the child in the corridor to avoid embarrassment, even if your kitchen is kosher. However fruit is fine. If you need food for your child ask one of the ladies helping in the kitchen, they are very helpful and can usually find cheese, crackers and biscuits. There is a box of spout (sippy) cups in the kitchen for drinks and there's usually milk and grape juice if you need it.
Entertainment
At the very end of the main corridor on the left is a room full of Jewish toys that our daughter loves, so you'll probably find her in there.
Breast Feeding / Naps
The best places for a discreet breast feed would be the toy room or the dressing room adjoining the Ladies' Toilets, which has a stool in it. During the service the Community Hall is deserted and has very comfortable soft seating. This is ideal for toddler naps.